Valentine’s Day is more than just a date on the calendar; it’s an opportunity to strengthen your connection with your spouse. It is also an opportunity to actively pursue your spouse again.
How To Actively Pursue Your Spouse Again
Have you had your marriage on the back burner? Well stop it. You married your person for a reason, so if you want to keep them happy, actively pursue your spouse and show them you care with these steps!
Plan with Purpose
Instead of generic plans, tailor your Valentine’s Day celebration to reflect your spouse’s preferences and interests. Whether it’s a surprise adventure, a cozy night in, or a shared hobby, plan with purpose to make the day truly special. Not what you want…what they want. And if you don’t know, ask, and take notes for the future. Actively pursue your spouse in the future as well.
Set the Mood
If you aren’t already praising the ground your spouse walks on, maybe you should start. Create a daily atmosphere that shows them that you care. Make your spouse feel cherished and not like they have to wait for a special holiday just to receive love. Work on creating a daily safe space for your spouse to feel loved and appreciated.
Meaningful Gestures
Move beyond the traditional gifts and focus on meaningful gestures. Consider handwritten notes, personalized gifts, or an act of service that will thrill them. These thoughtful touches demonstrate your deep understanding of your spouse.
Active Listening
Actively listen to your spouse’s desires and wishes for Valentine’s Day. Whether they drop hints or express preferences, paying attention shows that you value their input and are committed to making the day special for them.
Expressive Communication
Be intentional in expressing your love and appreciation. Use words, both written and spoken, to convey your feelings. Open communication strengthens emotional connection and fosters a deeper understanding of each other. Text them during the day just to say you love them. It’ll make the world of a difference.
Reignite Passion
Spice up your relationship by reigniting the passion. Plan intimate moments that go beyond the routine. Whether it’s a surprise date night or a sensual massage, focus on activities that enhance the romantic and physical connection. It doesn’t always have to turn sexual, especially if they aren’t feeling well. Holding hands, snuggling close, and playing with their hair are all ways to show them your love.
Reflect On Your Commitment
Take time to reflect on your journey together and renew your commitment. Share your aspirations for the future, discuss shared goals, and reaffirm your love and dedication to each other. Remember why you fell in love with them, why you’ve stayed, and why you continue to choose them.
By actively pursuing your spouse during the Valentine’s season, you not only celebrate the day but also contribute to the ongoing growth and strength of your relationship. Infuse intention, thoughtfulness, and genuine effort into each element of your celebration to make this Valentine’s Day truly memorable.
